Celebrating Wear It Purple Day with Avery Wright

Kaya Avery! Could you start by telling us a bit about yourself and your involvement in the LGBTQIA+ Advisory Group?

Hey! So, I am a pansexual transgender woman and also a student currently studying political science and philosophy at UWA. I also happen to be one of the current Pride Officers at the UWA student guild and that’s how I got involved in the LGBTQIA+ Advisory Group. Within the group I aim to provide the perspectives of both young LGBTQIA+ people and LGBTQIA+ students.  I am most excited to work towards creating a pride hub* to create a permanent space for our community where we can access services and social spaces.

*Action for consideration in draft LGBTQIA+ Plan

Why is Wear It Purple Day important to you?

Wear It Purple Day is important to me because it helps young LGBTQIA+ young people see who their allies are. It’s not like on an average day people walk around with a sign that tells you that they’re an ally; you have to rely on your intuition to figure out if you can trust someone. Wear It Purple Day changes up the dynamic and now you know exactly who you can trust and this matters especially to young LGBTQIA+ people who are often in incredibly vulnerable situations and really could do with the support.

Do you have any tips for how people can be everyday allies to LGBTQIA+ young people?

When I was in high school, I was looking for ways to know who my allies were without needing to come out. Pride stickers on laptops, a small comment about how they supported marriage equality, introducing themselves with their pronouns as well, and so many other small details would be my signal to know I was safe. When I did eventually come out to someone, what I needed was support and understanding. Young LGBTQIA+ people are often in really difficult circumstances so being prepared to deal with that is also a good idea.

Finally, is there anything you wish you could tell your younger self?

I would try to tell her that it is going to get better eventually even if right now it seems really bleak. Like a lot of young LGBTQIA+ people, I really struggled with my mental health and especially struggled to manage my gender dysphoria without access to medical care. Back then I couldn’t imagine actually getting to where I am now, it all seemed so far, but fortunately I met a lot of supportive people along the way who helped me get by day to day. So yeah, I’d like to tell her to keep trying, it hasn’t ended up perfectly but it’s so much better than where she was in life back then.

Council House will be lit up purple on 27 August.

For more information on Wear It Purple Day and how you can get involved, visit their website.

If this topic brings up anything for you, you can contact the following groups:

• If you’re feeling distressed and want to talk to someone right now, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
• For LGBTQIA+ specific peer support, contact Qlife via 1800 184 527 or webchat at qlife.org.au 3pm -12am 7 days per week.

Other groups for young LGBTQIA+ people:

• Freedom Centre is a peer-support group in Perth run by young LGBTQI+ people for young LGBTQI+ people.
• The Youth Pride Network committee are a group of young LGBTIQA+ people from across WA who are working to improve the lives of all young LGBTIQA+ people in the state through systematic advocacy.

Sources:

1. Western Australian Department of Health. Western Australian Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex (LGBTI) Health Strategy 2019–2024. Perth: Health Networks, Western Australian Department of Health; 2019.
2. National LGBTI Health Alliance (2020) Snapshot of Mental Health and Suicide Prevention statistics for LGBTI People February 2020. https://www.lgbtiqhealth.org.au/statistics